It's all about YOU!

Sadly we're living in a world where the majority of people are looking for Love, not only to share themselves with someone but more so to find someone to complete them. Trying to present themselves in the best possible light for their imagined future partner, most people live in a fairy tale concerning who they actually are! Deluded with a false image of themselves and what they stand to be. 

Finding your soul mate requires a different outlook, A far more patient approach which needs time and a lot more thought. Firstly you must be working on yourself constantly. 

But here are a few things you may want to keep in mind:

TIME waits for no1

You must take the time to understand yourself and discover how things work best for you. By discovering more about yourself you will then know what direction you are heading and in turn start to live a life that is meaningful to you. 

This will disappoint many that are close to you, such as your family/friends. But if you want to find fulfillment in your life, you have to take more time out for yourself which ultimately will leave less time for others!

Remember to always do what's right for you, this means you will be in places, jobs, and near people that are parallel with your life path/with you. So you will have a much better chance of meeting your soul mate, because your soul mate will also be connected to your life path.

 Take time and watch it grow!

When you meet someone you have a good connection with, allow that connection to develop and grow naturally. If the person is your soul mate, he or she will also be into you, so if you both pay genuine attention to each other then something is bound to develop.

One of my pet hates is a game player! there is no need to play games or to try  and achieve particular milestones by a certain time. A successful long-term relationship is not a game! It's a loving process that happens naturally on both sides.   

Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone you had to manipulate into it? 

Do you want your partner to be in love with an image you have created so that you have to hide yourself in some way? 

Or do you want your partner to love you wholeheartedly? 

What kind of relationship do you want to bring children into if you end up having them?

Each relationship is unique, just as each person is unique, so how your relationship unfolds will be unique to you too. 

You can’t plan for it to go a particular way. Or try a force your ideas onto your partner in order to mould things to your advantage. You have to go with the flow and then make decisions along the way.There is no one line you can say, no one action you can take, that will lead to a particular result.

Some of the most beautiful things of leading the life you process and not acting to perceive something different, 

is that it makes you more enticing
starmore real, authentic,valuable, passionate, happy, and present. 

This makes you more inviting and charming in a natural and effortless way, and it will also make you more loved by your soul mate.

Just be YOU!

Whether that means you dress in house clothes or sportswear, or casual clothing or more formal, or if your preference changes at different times.

You don’t need to be a particular weight or have large biceps or wear uncomfortable shoes if you don’t like them. Go to the gym only if you love it, do yoga if you love it, walk or jog or cycle if you enjoy those activities.

A partner who you will be with over the long term will not make a decision about your worth based on a superficial aspect of your appearance. So tap into what feels right for you, do the activities you enjoy, wear the clothes that suit you and in which you feel comfortable in. 

You will be far more attractive to your soul mate if you are yourself when you meet them.

All subjects i speak about will soon be followed by a vlog, getting a number of different people involved to see a wide range of thoughts and feelings on all of these interesting topics.

Signed

Jaydsworld