Is it rude to expect more from my baby's father?
If I'm no longer with my child's father is it rude to ask for help?
I know there are basic things that are expected, that's why the government recognise the importance of a father paying his way through child maintenance,
But if your baby's mother needs money towards bills or help in buying a car, Is it fair to say you should be offering to contribute? Considering ur child will see the benefits?
This subject here is a touchy one, and can be seen from many different points of views. With so many different questions surrounding it such as:
Did he ever agree that he wanted this child?
Did he ever agree that he wanted this child?
Were you in a relationship when u fell pregnant?
How long did you know eachother before hand?
Do you use your child as a tool?
Do you expect to much?
With all these questions in question this subject can be looked at in so many different ways, soon I will be covering this topic in a vlog where I will have a wide range of people stating there points of view and hopefully come to a general view on if this is looked on as right or wrong.
All subjects i speak about will soon be followed by a vlog, getting a number of different people involved to see a wide range of thoughts and feelings on all of these interesting topics.
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Jaydsworld
Definitely should be some sort of contribution! Especially if the woman is being reasonable and understanding! But on the other hand the question of whether or not the man wanted to have the child and bring a baby into the world can alter the variables. I feel the party that was prepared to have the child should hold a majority of the responsibility.
ReplyDeleteI don't think there's anything wrong with asking for help but it's how it's done that's the issue. Like the bm can't be taking advantage and using it as leverage. Then we come to if her bd is in a relationship,she's got to be respectful in what she asks for and when she asks for it eg no unreasonable late night calls or other things that may hinder the progression of the new relationship and definitely no using the spare key she has for emergencies to barge into his house because he didn't reply (believe me this happens)
DeleteLol I m going on here. Homegirl needs to remember her bd don't owe her nothing if they are over and done he just has a responsibility to their child together
At the same time babydaddy shouldn't be hiding any help he is giving his babymum from girlfriend or wife because it will just make her wonder what else is being hidden