All that glitters is not gold.

Sometimes, a guy would do just about anything to get into your panties. So how can you tell if he’s being real or he just wants to sleep with you?

All that glitters is not gold.

There are times when you think you’ve found the real deal, when in fact, it's just gold plated, rotten on the inside. Whether it’s a fake Gucci , a fake friend or a synthetic wig, the hype can sometimes make you want to believe that it’s the real thing.

Quite frankly, most men have ways of faking their intentions to you, but only for the very purpose of getting into your knickers. A lot of women can fall for the sweet one liners, the quick Witt, good sense of humour, the little gifts and the promises of forever, only to see him go missing the second you let him inside you-literally.

How to know if he’s faking everything to have sex with you?

I'm not here to make you feel that every man has bad intentions for you, I'm simply here to state that there are men out there that only want you for one thing. In order to get what he wants he uses manipulation,lies and trickery just to get some action! 

Below are some ways to spot a guy that only wants to

hit and run!

He never communicates with you during the day. 

When a new love interest arises and he actually wants to get to know you, feelings of care come naturally. And communication runs along side to that, whether it be day or night. You'll both want to see how each other's day is going or has gone. I don’t mean he needs to check in with you or you with him 24/7, but he should be doing something as simple as sending you a text or calling you on your lunch break, just to let you know he cares.

If your attention is currently on a guy who never once actually calls you or checks in with you during the day, and the only time you hear from him is usually on the weekend or late at night, then the reality is he’s not serious about you, but he does enjoy having sex with you.

He never takes you nowhere!

When a guy is fully into you he wants the world to see, he wants to spoil you and show you that this is how you are meant to be treated and this is all you deserve. When a guy isn't serious about you, and doesn't offer to take you anywhere, there's a problem

If you’re talking to a guy at the moment who hasn't once asked you out on a real date, this is a huge red flag. Asking you to meet up for drinks at 9pm or come over in the evening for netflix and chill, is not a date!

When a guy really likes you, he wants you to know, and he wants to spoil you. If he’s not taking you to dinner, or lunch, not even once, you might want to reconsider wasting any more of your time.

He’s uninterested in your family or friends. 

If the guy you’re currently spending time with doesn’t care to hear anything about your family, your friends, or the storys about your pass, it’s safe to say he only cares about the booty!

He’s only a night caller. 

If the man you’re seeing only calls you late at night, and never during the day. Then by golly think of yourself as a booty call.

He doesn’t actually want to be with you, unless it’s under the sheets. If you want to be a link, then fine, keep seeing him after dark. But if you want real relationships, real love, and real feelings in your life, it’s time you give him back to the ladies in his calibre!

He never sleeps over or lets you stay over. 

There is nothing more a man would want than to spend extra time with you, knowing where you lay your head at night, feeling comfortable having you around his own surroundings and spending as much time with you as possible. This comes natural when wanting more than sex, so if you don't feel he wants you to stay over, it's time to get over this loser cause your only going to end up hurt!

He always wants to just sex!

If and when you do meet up with your 'potiental' and the only thing he ever wants to do is get his leg over then you should probably realize this is a huge red flag. It’s great to meet up and be romantic with someone you like, but if your guy only wants to sleep with you and never do anything else, ever, it’s time to accept the fact he’s just not that into you at all. If the only thing your guy ever mentions involves you two, naked and getting it on, it’s time you get loose of the loser!

You always initiate. 

There is nothing sexy about desperation. I understand that we all want love and to be loved in return. Unfortunately, one way you will never get what you actually want is if you’re desperate. If you are constantly the one asking to hang out, or initiating the linkups then of course he’ll want to hang out with you, because who really is going to turn down sex on a plate?

He doesn't want to be friends on social media

In today’s society, what people see on social media are often fairly accurate representations of who they are in real life. And if the guy insists on not being friends on social media, then it’s a pretty blunt way of saying he doesn’t really want you in his real life… only behind closed doors. 

Most of the time, we already know the answers to our questions, especially when it comes to relationships and doubts. Our gut is our best friend. So learn to always trust in it. We tend to ignore what we already know, seeking answers to our questions elsewhere, in hopes that maybe we’ll get a different answer, or hear what we want to hear, instead of what we need to hear.

The reality is that no matter how many times you ask yourself the same question, or how many people you seek advice from; the answer will usually be the same, always. If you have doubts about the guy you’re currently seeing, and thinking he might not be into you as much as you are into him, you’re probably right.

Don’t be the kind of woman who mistakes sex and intimacy for love. Men can fake it. If you have doubts about whether the guy you’re seeing is really into you, check for these signs.

All subjects i speak about will soon be followed by a vlog, getting a number of different people involved to see a wide range of thoughts and feelings on all of these interesting topics.

Signed

Jaydsworld