'Baby… I think I’m going Away this year with my boys'

It's all fun and games during winter. But what happens when the temperature changes and he starts going out topless with that hot body u couldn't wait to come home to on those winter nights. The sun comes out and you hear the words you’ve been dreading ever since you over heard him talking with his friends about holiday deals they saw on TV a few weeks back.

'Baby… I think I’m going Away this year with the boys'

You’ve only been dating a few months, you were still in the honeymoon period and  happy whilst it was cold and raining outside and you were snuggled up in bed together. Of course now that everyone has woken up from the winter, now the summer months are here, you find yourself spending less time snuggling in front of the TV watching Xfactor or the Voice and more time doing your ‘own thing’.

The raves have begun and with them… come more problems. I don't know about you, but due to past experiences my thinking process starts doing acrobatics, and I start making up scenarios in my head almost certain I know how it's all gonna end, me crying in a corner! Its bad enough your boyfriend spends most weekend’s out clubbing, but now this: 'Lord help me!' that was until he decided to drop the bomb and tell you that his decided him and his boys will be venturing to raves a whole ocean away…

While he might claim that he’d “never cheat” when it comes to love, most men live by one rule, and one rule only… “out of sight, out of mind”. Oh sorry let's make that two 'what happens here, stays here'

All the boys are going and he doesn't want to seem like he is whipped. As far as his “boys” are concerned he’s the man and you don’t lay down the law in this relationship. So I guess you’re going to just have to break it off with him…

But what’s that? You’re having second thoughts about breaking up over this? You’re right… the holiday’s not for another three months. Who knows what might happen between now and then. The cheap airline they booked their tickets with might go bust, the island that they’re visiting might get blown up, or he might even break his leg and be unable to go.

Yes, stay positive and stay calm and go book a girls holiday to spite him. Lmao! 

And in the mean time, moan to every friend that will listen about the likelihood of him keeping his manhood to himself for the 7 days.

“Oh don’t worry” you say “I’ll find out if he’s cheated… the truth always comes out”. 

Well no, it does not. But fear not, if his friends are smart enough not to upload any pictures of him slow grinding with other girls onto Facebook, there’s always the Jeremy Kyle lie detector test as a last resort.

Who says romance is dead, eh?

You don’t really know a man until you’ve known him for a full 12 months. Winter him and summer him are two totally different men.

If u last this entire time then my gosh u have a keeper!  

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Signed

Jaydsworld